Information for families and friends (carers)

Information and resources for families, friends, supporters and kin who are supporting a person living with borderline personality disorder (BPD) or emotional dysregulation.

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Who is a carer?

The term 'carer' encompasses anyone who voluntarily supports someone living with borderline personality disorder (BPD). This includes biological and non-biological family members (such as parents, grandparents, children, and extended family), spouses, partners, friends, and other supporters.

You might not consider yourself a 'carer'—perhaps you simply feel you're doing what anyone would do when they care about someone. However, mental health services may refer to you as a carer, and this information is provided to support you in that role.

What can I do to support someone living with BPD?

There are a variety of skills we can learn to respond to the person living with BPD in way that supports healthier relationships.  Click on the links below to find out more.

Yesterday I had a moment that would normally have ended in tears for both my daughter and myself. Instead, I utilised what I had learnt, listened without judgement, and came from a place of acceptance. Having support, guidance and education is the key to living with this challenging disorder.

Past training participant — Lived Experience Carer