Information for families and friends (carers)
Information and resources for families, friends, supporters and kin who are supporting a person living with borderline personality disorder (BPD) or emotional dysregulation.
Who is a carer?
The term "carer" encompasses anyone who voluntarily supports someone living with borderline personality disorder (BPD). This includes biological and non-biological family members (such as parents, grandparents, children, and extended family), spouses, partners, friends, and other supporters.
You might not consider yourself a "carer"—perhaps you simply feel you're doing what anyone would do when they care about someone. However, mental health services may refer to you as a carer, and this information is provided to support you in that role.
Understanding BPD and its impact
Everyone's experience of BPD is unique. Similarly, the experiences of living with and supporting someone with BPD vary widely. Some information may not resonate with you at this time, and that's okay. We encourage you to explore all the resources provided to find what is most helpful for you.
What can I do to support someone living with BPD?
There are a variety of skills we can learn to respond to the person living with BPD in way that supports healthier relationships. Click on the links below to find out more.
Other resources
Information
Taking care of yourself as a 'carer'
Taking care of your own needs is essential
Training
Education and Support for carers
Workshop and information sessions for families, friends, supporters and kin (carers) to learn more about BPD.
Information
Navigating the mental health system for carers in Victoria
A list of key pathways for carers to help you navigate the mental health system in Victoria.
Treatments
Spectrum treatment services
Spectrum offer various forms of treatment and care.
Information
Carer resources and programs external to Spectrum
A list of helpful external resources and programs for families and friends (carers).